Crikey Dwight, your glass appears to be incredibly half-empty ??
I can assure you, you will NOT get an answer on any forum as to when you Cab will 'Go live'. For various reasons (Sitting on our arse not being one of them), Cabs get commissioned at different stages. Just because the newly installed Cabinet is sat there looking all pretty does not follow that the actual Fibre spine has been 'blown in', or the other great stumbling block .... the power utility hasn't provided the necessary 240v feed. The local 'Expression of interest' for FTTC may also be poor ??.
I don't work in this particular area, but I'm betting if I asked, there'd be a million and one other genuine reasons as to why some Cabs are made 'Live' within weeks and others take months ?? It would be a good bet, as I read on a regular basis the naivety of individuals perception of the Copper/Ali Network.
Now go and get your glass, run a tap, and get that level over half-way .......... it will happen when it happens. There are folk on here who would love to be at the stage you are at.