Thanks. The step change that you pointed out was effectively caused by the simple (to do, but not for me to to diagnose!
) step of replacing the local micro-filter with a new one on the only phone extension on this line. There is another phone on the "master" but that is on an Openreach provided and installed filtered face plate
As I get to understand this better (unlocked HG612 is a great tool and this forum and its members are a fantastic resource) it's clear that there are opportunities to improve the home wiring and that's on my to do list.
However, at the moment, beyond starting to plan how to do that (in terms of cabling etc. .... which will not be entirely straightforward given this is a very old cottage that's been significantly extended at least 3 times to my knowledge), I want to see if I can get to North of 40 Mbps before I do anything else, i.e. leave well alone in case DLM is minded to relent!
I suspect it was in that error-ing state for a very long while before I changed the filter. I don't ever recall getting decent speeds on this line either from the original Infinity 1 nor on the current Infinity 2 which has been in place for the last couple years now. So DLM, as you say, may not give in easily, if at all.
So whilst I am going to wait a couple weeks to give it chance I am already starting to think about enlisting the help of my ISP (....BT Retail, its an Infinity package). .. and also thinking about how to avoid an engineer visit fee and ensure I end up with a DLM reset.
.....I'm also hoping strongly that if an engineer (speed boost?) is sent out that its one who knows what he is doing. This forum has a few threads that demonstrate that that isn't always the case..... but that's probably a minority of cases in the real world? People rarely comment/"send out the brass band" to celebrate success, but failure understandably can often result in outrage and /or "lots of heat and noise"?
Once the base case is improved then I will try to improve further (hopefully not irritating Mr. DLM in the process!) with some physical improvements to the wiring.
Thanks for you comments I appreciate them