Goodness

isn't that just horrifying !

We have some very good friends, a couple in the UK, who tried for years to adopt a child, being unable to conceive. They were finally refused because it was the second marriage for the wife !! Eventually they travelled to China and successfully, after almost two years, adopted a beautiful baby girl. A couple of years later they went though the same procedure for a second beautiful daughter. A lovelier family you couldn't wish for.
It's a pity the same strict conditions don't apply to avoid feckless parenting, as is the case in this instance.