Kitz, that seems to be a recurrent problem with AOL. It's not specific to this forum.
Thanks for pointing that out.
I was actually aware as I have a friend who is on AOL and periodically my mail (from a different private account) doesnt get through to him either because of their spam filter.
I can usually tell when this happens because mail gets bounced back to me a couple of days later.
However the address used by the forum software to send out auto activations, (for obvious reasons) isnt monitored therefore I wont be aware there is a problem with someones activation.