Update after having various plays
routers used:-
D-Link 2640B f/w 4.01 + tweaked DMT v8.07 (to allow connection)
D-Link 2640B f/w 3.06 + standard DMT v8.07
Netgear DG834GT f/w's v1.02.14, 1.02.16, 1.03.32 and DGTeam 848 (various combos of DMT 8.07, Routerstats and DGTeam tweaks)
Looks like D-link wins on my line
In fact, the slightly older one with v3.06 is what I've settled on (for now ), with DMTv8.07 giving me:-
Downstream Upstream
Rate (Kbps): 5632 768
SNR Margin (dB): 7.6 13.0
Attenuation (dB): 48.0 24.0
Output Power (dBm): 12.3 19.8
However, I've gone back to the later 2640B, with v.4.01 f/w, now getting
Downstream Upstream
Rate (Kbps): 5472 800
SNR Margin (dB): 7.0 13.0
Attenuation (dB): 47.0 23.0
Output Power (dBm): 12.3 19.8
which looks like the max I can get without instability setting in due to error build-up