Hi
I have read that the Netgear routers can work down to 0dB SNRM (or lower!).
You can't put any trust in the reported figures, that 0db might be your current modems reported 4db figure, just calculated differently.
Theory is you can have a connection with 0db margin, as it is only a margin above what is required. Problem is that is based on background even noise levels and these background noise levels rise due to lots of sources of noise turning on as night approaches. While this raises noise levels and so reduces your margin, it also increases the likely hood of impulse noise as more things are in use and switching off and on. Impulse noise is a bit different to normal signal to noise. Think of a party with lots of people talking and trying to follow someone's conversation, if the noise level stays pretty constant, or even where it slowly rises as more people arrive, you can shout louder and make adjustments to hear. Impulse noise is like a group of people at the next table suddenly letting off party poppers and so you have a sudden increase in noise levels way above the background noise. As you are already shouting and struggling to have a conversation, the sudden increase in noise levels means you no longer can hear or be heard. Even though the noise is short lived, your conversation has been interrupted, and in ADSL terms that requires a resync.
Because impulse noise is short lived, it doesn't usually show up in your SNR reported numbers. So even where you may still have a few db of noise margin, this simply isn't enough to ride out random impulse noise or sudden events of higher noise.
So you are resync'ing not because your margin has dropped to 3.5db, but because a sudden increase of noise has occurred that goes unseen in the reported figures. When your modem resyncs, it resyncs on the basis of night time background noise levels, so goes back to a higher margin and a lower sync speed. The now restored increased margin means bouts of sudden high noise levels are not as problematic.
Regards
Phil