I suspect you'd rather hear from ISP support people (I'm not), but the following - which is just my own view - may be of interest...
One problem that I know to affect DLM, feeding thorough to ISPs and BT, is that in can in some cases make an inappropriate decision to raise a target margin. In that event, the only way to get the margin put back in any sensible time frame is for the consumer to ask his ISP to ask BTw to apply a manual override. Many (not all) ISPs struggle with such a request as it's not in their script, and BTw don't seem to like it either. I'm guessing BTw never anticipated it happening when they dreamed up DLM.
There are various scenarios for DLM making a bad judgement, including for example, transient electrical storms that cause temporary instability. The one that I personally think should be taken more seriously however, is vulnerability to consumer-error, in the form of too many router resets in a given time, which DLM mistakes for major line instability. I believe the threshold is ten resyncs in one hour. This can happen quite innocently if, say, a consumer is trying out a new router, and may want to try a few different syncs with old and new router for comparative purposes. BT's DLM, in this case, actually pushes the line up two notches on the target margin, e.g. from 9dB to 15dB. But as stated in previous paragraph, the only official way of getting it fixed involved major hassle for all parties - consumer, ISP, and BTw alike.
In reality of course, many consumers faced with that scenario, instead of approaching their ISP, find it easier to get hold of a router with a tweakable margin and so effectively bypass DLM. For tech-savvy users that's not too bad, but I wonder how many ISP support people end up tearing their hair out when they find somebody tweaked the margin on a line that has genuine need for a higher target, and then face an uphill struggle asking the customer to undo the tweak? And even for tech savvy users it's problematic, because one day in the distant future DLM may reduce the target again, and unless the user quickly notices the change, and reduces the tweak to compensate, they may be faced with an unstable line.