Have you got UPnP enabled in the router? It's not essential, but is usually the easiest way to get it working.
You are spot on Eric,thank you so much,thats what the problem was,30 odd hours of misery wiped out as i can do it now.Do you know what settings
i need to change to streamline it for optimum download speed.
1.connection type xx/?
,ive got current set for that
2.upload speed ive got 350 set for that
3.download speed ive got 5500 set for that