Thanks everyone for your input, much appreciated.
Yea i initially went round in circles using dhcp and mer, assuming it was VDSL, as didnt realise many ADSL lines still existed. Considering we both for work BT, you would think we would have realised beforehand, but we are electrical maintenance rather than anything to do with the network side of things so thats my excuse haha.
Right, so it seems the HG612 is my issue. As it was letting my select EoA on the WAN, and ATM, i assumed it could do the PPoE but as that doesnt seem to be the case, it all makes sense now.
Ill get him to either get a vigor 130, or switch to BT once his sky is out of contract.
Much appreciated all, have a good day.