I think it is fair to say that BT were fully behind vectoring. Right up until the point that it totally disappeared off the radar. Not coincidentally, BT announced their G.Fast plans at the same time.
It was a technology that was considered worth introducing, in the strategy that BT were following at the time. The changes were even being introduced in the back-office systems; this was no mere decision that vectoring was not worthwhile.
It has suffered from a change in strategy. Someone in BT has put together a G.Fast strategy that has become compelling to the men with the money, and as a side-effect has jettisoned vectoring. Perhaps the G.Fast strategy needed the money being allocated to vectoring. Perhaps the G.Fast strategy needed the boost in take-up that would come from NGA users on lower, crosstalk-induced speeds. Perhaps the G.Fast strategy needs space in the existing DSLAMs that prevents vectoring-capable cards being added. Who knows?
Whatever the reason, it is fair to say that the strategy shift has won out over the possible gains from vectoring, save some limited cases that are beneficial to BT rather than end users.
I don't see much point in harking after it.