There's a document from the Broadband Forum (that puts together standards for how DSL systems work) that describes vectoring.
Inside, there's a great graph that shows just how bad crosstalk can get, in the absolute worst case. And how good things can be if vectoring is implemented.
The downside is that it doesn't show FTTC in quite the same way it works in the UK - it doesn't include the power masking we use to keep ADSL working, and it is based on 0.4mm copper, where we are more likely to be on 0.5mm. However, it gives a good overview...
https://www.broadband-forum.org/marketing/download/mktgdocs/MR-257.pdfFigures 6 and 7 are most appropriate.
I can't explain it in more detail right now, but ask questions for when I'm back again...
only BT will have the figures for their copper network, but in published trial results, average speed drop can be measured in 10s of mbit/sec rather than a few hundred kbit/sec.
For one customer? If that was for one customer, I'd be back on ADSL speeds by now!
In crosstalk, the pairs that run closest to yours are always going to be the biggest disturber. If those don't carry VDSL, then you'll see little. If they do, you'll see a lot. Other pairs sitting a few mm further away in the bundle will affect your line less.
You can find heatmaps from lab results, showing a 2D map of how line X affects line Y.