If you suspect packet loss, you could use pathping from your PC to site and from server (if you have direct access to server) to see if any packets are lost and where there lost
Just noticed this suggestion - thank you.
To clarify, I'm not seeing any packet loss from here and others who responded in the thread on the same ISP as me weren't.. neither are a couple of TT users... hence why at first we wondered if it was a routing issue.
However looking at mikes latest firebug attachment appeared to show that routing was okish, he was reaching my server and it was responding quite quickly for the majority of the html assets.
Re the packet loss suggestion, I just thought it a little strange that tabmenu_left loaded quite quickly, yet there is a noticeable delay for the tabmenu_right, the fact that the majority of assets loaded within a reasonable time made me wonder why just a couple of very small images were being delayed. If for example Mike had a CRC which would cause packet loss, then that could possibly explain it.
Im clutching at straws not knowing why it seems ok for some of us, but Mike is having recurring problems.