more weirdness, today decided to do a speedtest, download was fine but upload was bad, it was on every repeated test.
Then I hopped gateways and surprise surprise, see the new result, again repeated.
I then looked at my tbb graph and its been littered with packetloss 24/7, strangely this wasnt affecting download speeds only uploads. Now after the gateway hop the packetloss is gone.
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