I suggest you should consider the problems as Crosstalk, not (external) RFI. In particular, even-order intermodulation at the exchange, would produce tone-like spectral lines at higher, near harmonic, frequencies. This would explain a mask blocking off these frequencies.
Listening with a receiver would show the difference between RFI and Crosstalk, a system designed round xDSL won't; (if you can't find any spectral lines at all, then interference only exists in the xDSL system so must be crosstalk ! )