all sorted... it was a screw up - by my dad ... lol
he was here and I had a look at these "texts" and there werent any such texts like he told me... I dunno what goes through his head or what he was reading either..?? he said to me he got a few texts and one says 17th and other 18th...
he had a few texts but only one said about engineer on 18th which was correct?
the ONLY thing I can think of was that the 17th one wasnt a text he was referring to and I thought he meant that because he said it in same context while on about the texts, ...they write/jot everything down, we had tried to sign up a few times unsuccessfully the week before, but before it didnt work we wrote down the first engineer install date which was 17th...then it said it failed, we tried a week later (Sunday gone) and booked in the 18th and we got it working this time... I think he has kept the
old bit of paper that he wrote everything down on the last time and told his GF to pencil in 17th in calender (which is odd because he would now have two bits of paper, one I assumed he threw away but mustn't of) and when he on about the texts he is actually reading calender date 17th and text date 18th... when I see him im gunna ask him about it again cos im almost certain he said "one text says...the other one says.."
anyway - my dad has just made me look a right numpty... i look like one anyway so... haha
my apologies