There has been some talk of ISPs being able to request various profiles e.g. speed profile, stability profile, standard profile etc.
However, as far as we are aware, this has NOT been implemented (yet).
In the meantime, DLM is allowed to automatically set such things as sync speed / Interleaving depth, Target SNR etc.
DLM appears very aggressive when slowing things down, but very slow at speeding things up.
Ideally you would harvest your stats & graph them & compare them against your nearby sister's stats & graphs.
Due to the low FTTC speeds you report, I assume you are both already quite a distance from the cabinet (I assume you are both connected to the same cabinet?).
I would take a wild stab that you are around 1600m from the cabinet & your sister is 1300m from the cabinet.
If you are both a lot closer than that, it could suggest aluminium cabling and/or its connections being in poor condition.