BBN,
Did we discuss the site for the modem (right by the
NTE5/A which has a SSFP fitted) and the router/WAP (close to your "office", main computer), using an appropriate length of Cat5e Ethernet cable to link the two? Or was it someone else? I forget . . .
One thing that nobody has yet mentioned, leave the modem connected and powered up for the first 24 hours. Resist the urge to disconnect it, move it about, press the reset button, etc. The first 24 hours from when a FTTC service is first deployed is when your modem and the DSLAM in the cabinet "get to fully understand each other" (to use a simplistic turn of phrase).
As for the poorer
throughput speed, when determined on your XP 'puter, I think
Bald_eagle1 has stated the likely reason -- the MTU and RWIN settings. Again, I think I have read of a similar situation recently, possibly a thread in a
ThinkBroadband forum. But as I said above, I forget . . .