My household has 4 DECT phones. They are all different brands that I've bought over the years so, although three of the four base stations are serving only as chargers, all four are still radiating.
I also have a long line (56dB attenuation), yet benefit a circa 4Mbit throughput at 9dB target margin. That's some way above average. My conclusion is, in my circumstances at least, DECT is no impediment at all to ADSL.
I've tried switching the DECT stuff off of course just for comparison, it made no difference at all to ADSL stats. I actually worry more about having mobile phone technology in (or near) the house, as it emits similar radiation patterns to DECT, but scaled up to hundreds (or is it thousands?) of times the energy levels of DECT.
I've failed to find any evidence that mobile phones are detrimental but if you want to worry about stray radiation then, in my opinion, there's no point worrying about DECT until you (and your neighbours) first all get rid of the mobile phones, and other related technology such as smart meters that contain GSM modules....