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Title: Apology
Post by: adslmax on January 15, 2022, 08:12:28 AM
May I apology to Kitz and everyones here on this forum for my badly behaviour and heated moment. I better start to best behaviour myself and no more metion of speed test, dsl stats, btw checker, and gfast talk. I haven't been well lately, all alone last xmas give me lots of mental illness health and too much obsessed with gfast stats kept checked every 30 minutes in the last 4 weeks are making me ill.

Lastly, I have to accepted to live with stable connection and get on with my own life with doing something different. I am thinking of going to swimming, gym to get my fitness back and maybe I start to join Lawley Running Club to get my mind off things. And finally, going to stay with my gfast until May then downgraded to FTTC 40/10 and that's was it.

Title: Re: Apology
Post by: tubaman on January 15, 2022, 12:38:52 PM
I think getting out doing some exercise will work wonders for your mental health.
Doing nothing with your broadband until May is a good move but, like Kitz, I'm not convinced you'll be happy with a 40/10 connection and think you'd be better off with BT's Essential 80/20 service, but that is a decision only you can make.
 :)
Title: Re: Apology
Post by: maxheadroom on January 15, 2022, 01:07:27 PM
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I haven't been well lately, all alone last xmas give me lots of mental illness health and too much obsessed with gfast stats kept checked every 30 minutes in the last 4 weeks are making me ill.

Sorry but the problem was not just this Christmas you have been doing this for years and i fear once you drop to 40/10 it is going to make you more anxious about your speed and you will be back on the speed check every half hour again.
Title: Re: Apology
Post by: Edinburgh_lad on January 15, 2022, 02:00:44 PM
May I apology to Kitz and everyones here on this forum for my badly behaviour and heated moment. I better start to best behaviour myself and no more metion of speed test, dsl stats, btw checker, and gfast talk. I haven't been well lately, all alone last xmas give me lots of mental illness health and too much obsessed with gfast stats kept checked every 30 minutes in the last 4 weeks are making me ill.

Lastly, I have to accepted to live with stable connection and get on with my own life with doing something different. I am thinking of going to swimming, gym to get my fitness back and maybe I start to join Lawley Running Club to get my mind off things. And finally, going to stay with my gfast until May then downgraded to FTTC 40/10 and that's was it.

I don't think you should be apologising. I'm actually appalled by some of the comments that were aimed at you, and I think it is those that are behind them that should be apologising to you.

However, I do agree with what has been said here that perhaps going out and taking up a hobby of some sort would be good, as these are always good for one's mental health. Perhaps seeking professional help would also be a good thing to consider.

 
Title: Re: Apology
Post by: Weaver on January 15, 2022, 03:53:51 PM
>I don't think you should be apologising. I'm actually appalled by some of the comments that were aimed at you, and I think it is those that are behind them that should be apologising to you.

Hear hear! Completely agree. (Although I’m biased somewhat.)

> However, I do agree with what has been said here that perhaps going out and taking up a hobby of some sort would be good, as these are always good for one's mental health.

Absolutely.

> Perhaps seeking professional help would also be a good thing to consider.

Very important to at least get some advice, can only help.

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Title: Re: Apology
Post by: Reformed on January 17, 2022, 04:06:16 PM
Who am I to judge you too much?
Title: Re: Apology
Post by: maxheadroom on January 17, 2022, 04:09:50 PM
Who am I to judge you too much?

That is a strange statement surely its -

Who am i to judge.

How can you judge someone too much?
Title: Re: Apology
Post by: Alex Atkin UK on January 17, 2022, 08:37:22 PM
I don't think you should be apologising. I'm actually appalled by some of the comments that were aimed at you, and I think it is those that are behind them that should be apologising to you.

Glad I'm not the only one confused about the whole ordeal, though I do understand from Kitz that max gave as good as he got, bad things were said on both sides.  But it never would have started if those people complaining about max wasting their time had just chosen NOT to post in the first place.
Title: Re: Apology
Post by: maxheadroom on January 18, 2022, 02:12:23 PM
Glad I'm not the only one confused about the whole ordeal, though I do understand from Kitz that max gave as good as he got, bad things were said on both sides.  But it never would have started if those people complaining about max wasting their time had just chosen NOT to post in the first place.

Sorry i totally disagree max was in a cycle where his neighbour was getting constantly higher speeds than him and even though it made no difference to the way the internet worked at his home it cause him to  check his speeds every 30 minutes for 4 weeks solid (as he admitted in the post)

If you go back through my posts to Max you will see i have suggested several times (as have many other members) that he should stop doing regular speed checks and go and do something positive instead and to only check his speed when he noticed his connection wasn't working properly i don't think members were complaining that he was wasting their  time but wasting his own and making himself ill.
Title: Re: Apology
Post by: Edinburgh_lad on January 18, 2022, 05:53:49 PM
That is a strange statement surely its -

Who am i to judge.

How can you judge someone too much?

You're onto pointing out someone else's issues with semantics, but I'd like to point out yours with regards to punctuation/lower case:

- Not 'its', but 'it's'

- Not 'i', but 'I'

- Not to mention missing commas.



Title: Re: Apology
Post by: kitz on January 18, 2022, 07:03:00 PM
Disappointed by the direction this thread is taking.  I have some words to add but as it takes me a while to do things these days I don't want it to degenerate further in the mean time,  so I am going to temporarily lock the thread.