Are you supplied on 240V? Our first house was supplied on 240 via overhead lines, and you could visibly see the lights dim when switching on the kettle or toaster. I've not seen this in other houses where we've always had our own transformer served off 11kV.
Being pedantic, it's nominally 230V these days. More to the point, yes, we are fed from, and at the end of, overhead wires. Not entirely sure whether its 3 phase or a single pair but either way these cables have some impedance.
I've just tried an experiment... with just normal stuff (fridge, a few light bulbs, a PC etc) the mains was sitting at 222.5V. Then I switched on both ovens (it's a 'range'), the kettle and the toaster. Voltage dropped to 216.5V.
But 216V is actually OK, everything still works. The only time a real problem arises is as I say, on Christmas morning approaching dinner time, when the entire village has their toasters, kettles, and ovens on. Then 210V is not infrequent, at which point the oven's heater element is no longer capable of a decent temperature for roast potatoes.
re 'harmonisation' and 'compatibility'. When I do get around to buying a new oven I'll be able to buy one designed for Europe. Yippee. But it won't stop me being hacked off that I have to buy it in the first place, when the old one still works, if only it could get the mains voltage for which it was designed.