Out of curiosity I just tried launching DSLstats as root by using kdesu:
/usr/lib/kde4/libexec/kdesu .../dslstats
This did create a tray entry which worked when I clicked on it, but it didn't show an icon in it. Is this the issue you're trying to solve? I'm not sure that forwarding the user's .Xauthority to the system default will work.