Hello,
I've just read the thread again.
What you are looking for is this:
Router 1 (the main router) connects to ADSL. This router handles DHCP, for all downstream devices. When you've sorted out the Netgear, then Router 1 will still control and issue addresses for anything that requires auto configuration. DHCP requests are passed through the Netgear upstream to Router 1.
If you have a device that needs to be manually configured, then I recommend that you use an address that is outside of the DHCP address pool.
To clarify. The following is an example only. Your specific numbers will be different.
Assume that router 1 is set to issue address's (by DHCP) in the range (e.g. 192.168.1.2 to 192.168.1.200).
Now boot an auto configured PC. It will probably be issued with 192.168.1.2 .
Boot another, and it will probably be given 192.168.1.3
Now you decide to boot your media server which has a manual configuration of 192.168.1.3 .
You now have 2 devices with the same address. Not good, won't work.. see the problem?
For the media server to be guaranteed to connect correctly it would need to have an address of at least 192.168.1.201 (202, 203 etc.).
You may need to reduce/alter the DCHP pool on router 1 if you have to/wish to use manually configured devices.
One further thing that I forgot to mention about the Netgear. You may need to set its default gateway to point to router 1.
Bodge99