So as below.
been getting weird results.
Tests I did are.
all 4 dimms memory consistency errors, removed all overclocking and set dimms back to low speed, still errors.
2 dimms, pass
other 2 dimms in same 2 dimm slots as first 2 dimms, pass
repeat test in other 2 dimm slots, fail
at this point thought slam dunk board issue.
one dimm in first of bad 2 dimm slots, pass
same dimm in 2nd supposedbly bad dimm slot, pass
ok whats going on
2 dimms in supposedbly bad dimm slots (diff 2 dimms to the pair used with failed test), pass
inserted other 2 dimms in what thought good dimm slots so now 4 total again, fail
removed one dimm so 3 dimms in place, pass.
reinstated cpu overclock and put ram back to XMP speed, pass
so I have now out of the case what may be a bad dimm.
about to do a new test now swapping out one of the 3 dimms with what I think is the bad one. if that fails I will then put the good one back in and bad out but test using the unused dimm slot, if that passes I will assume bad dimm. - both these tests failed so this is a mess
So basically no consistent results which give clear cause of problem.