A possible consolation prize;
My exchange having gone FFTC some time ago, my ADSL performance seems a little faster and decidedly more stable which I put down to reduced crosstalk . It depends on your requirements, if you are an online gamer or looking for a status symbol, then anything will be too slow !
yeah adsl also gets crosstalk but it doesnt get the same attention as FTTC, I think what brought it into the light on FTTC is when vectoring got developed, then all the vendors started publishing crosstalk data to show what vectoring can do. If vectoring never got developed I think crosstalk data wouldnt have been published. Whether or not adsl crosstalk is as severe as FTTC (around 40%) no idea. But due to FTTC power cutback on the adsl tones, adsl users according to vendor documents and ofcom documents are expected to get increased performance as neighbouring VDSL lines are more friendly (due to the cutback) than neighbouring adsl lines.